Tuesday, April 29, 2025

Live hopefully no matter what🎢🎢☀️πŸ™πŸ»


‘A bell’s not a bell til you ring it. A song’s not a song til you sing it. Love in your heart wasn’t put there to stay. Love isn’t love til you give it away’. (Oscar Hammerstein)

‘Sing and keep on walking’. (St. Augustine)

My siblings and I sing all the time, mostly without even realising that we are singing. Our dear Dad had us sing from the moment we could talk and maybe even before that. One of my regrets in life is that while he loved to hear me sing, I never once asked him to sing for me. However, I am sure and certain that some fine day we will sing together in Heaven please God. (I was only eighteen years of age when my dear Dad passed suddenly r.i.p)

Today in St. Anne’s Holy Rosary group an elderly lady, (former neighbour) shared the following story from my childhood. I just love it !!

Upon returning from school every day, as a young child, I would go sit with two guys in a haggard near our home, as they made lobster pots for my fisherman Dad. What did we talk about? I have no idea but I remember clearly gazing on the neatly piled sally rodds. Simple abundance about to be used to create something magnificent. Right now as I write, what I wouldn’t give to lay my eyes once again on one such lobster pot!!

Seemingly, one afternoon my Dad came to fetch me and not wanting to leave, I ran off to my hiding place close by. I asked the men to please tell my Dad I was not there. My Dad stood for a moment before replying: ‘I know she is here. I can hear her singing’.

In my hiding place that day I completely forgot to stop singing, and thank God, every day since my charming childhood, hail, rain or snow, the song continues on, by the glorious grace of God.

A guy in our Holy Rosary group rarely speaks but always he joins in when we sing. Singing makes him feel happy, he told me once.

I heard a Sister say recently that the practice of virtues such as compassion, kindness, forgiveness, gratitude and patience can actually change the neuro pathways in the brain resulting in healing hope and new life.

I would add ‘singing’ to that life-giving list. I remember reading one time that each activity lights up some part of the brain while music and song light up the whole brain.

Right now my crows are ‘singing’ at the bottom of my garden. How they sound is irrelevant!! They just love to sing and no one is excluded.

All together now……

‘Life seems to go on without effort when I am filled with music’. (George Eliot)


‘Music is a higher revelation than all wisdom and philosophy’. (Ludwig Van Beethoven)



Monday, April 28, 2025

Anchored in the Lord☀️πŸ™πŸ»

‘Jesus, O Jesus, if the desire of loving You is so delightful, what will it be to possess and enjoy this love’. (St. Therese of Lisieux)

When folk get wed my only gift is a Holy Bible. Nephews, nieces, friends of my sons, everyone! One time one of my sons exclaimed: ‘Nobody wants a Bible’, to which I replied ‘Perhaps not right now but sometime maybe’. I can honestly declare that while folk are definitely surprised, at the same time they are never disappointed. One nephew proudly told me that his Bible looks beautiful on his coffee table!

Pat is getting married soon and although we know each other since he was quite young, I wondered whether I would gift him one or not. I had decided probably not when a few days ago he stopped in traffic in his truck, right beside me. Absolutely amazing! Close enough to chat. Godincidence!

‘I have a wedding gift for you’, I blurted out without thinking. This morning he called to my door and what a joyful encounter ensued. I always place the marker on Psalm 91, telling the recipient of Holy Bible that to pray psalm 91 is marvellous minding from Heaven above, every day of their lives.

‘If you do decide to pray Psalm 91, you might well be the first ever, even though I have gifted many Holy Bibles with that same invitation’, I told him. ‘You wouldn’t know what we might do’, he replied smilingly, in true Kerry fashion.

‘You will say to the Lord, my refuge and my fortress, my God in whom I trust’. (Psalm 91:2)

(One time I placed a photo of note on Psalm 91 page for a nephew. When he decides to pray Psalm 91 he will be pleasantly surprised!)

Before we parted company Pat gazed on the beautiful leather bound Holy Bible uttering; ‘This is a great job altogether’.

He happily accepted my prayer too and laughingly told me that his friend has my prayer in his wallet. Safety in numbers!!

On my way to Holy Mass, dear lady gifted me a most exquisite gem. Ancient, well-read copy of the autobiography of St. Therese of Lisieux. 

I love it. We give and we get. That’s the Trinitarian principle! All glory to God all the time.

‘I feel that my mission is about to begin, my mission to make God loved as I love Him, to teach souls my little way’. (St. Therese of Lisieux/Story of a Soul))


Singing recessional hymn ‘Our Lady of Knock’, at Holy Mass, in compact country Church where we worshiped with our dear parents in the sunny long ago when suddenly the sweetest blackbird outside, began to sing in unison right to the very end. How beautiful is our God.

                                  ‘His eye is on the sparrow and I know He watches me’. (Hymn)




Thursday, April 24, 2025

Eventful day☀️πŸ™πŸ»


‘I am consecrated to God and totally dedicated to His service’. (Venerable Bruno Lanteri)

Our beloved Church is undergoing a much needed extreme makeover and so Holy Mass will be celebrated in tiny adjoining oratory for the near future.

I arrive early. My privilege to be Sacristan and our new setup required time to spare. Already I am loving it all. Compact and cozy in the arms of Holy Trinity one God and all of Heaven.

Soon after, lady walks in. Visitor to our town from Holland. Glancing all around, she speaks the following words: ‘I am agnostic but I would very much desire a Catholic Mass for my funeral’.

Wow! What a conversation starter! We talked, she accepted my prayer, loving its simplicity.

Her husband is Catholic but ‘he knows nothing except the sign of the Cross’. Their children attend Catholic school.

‘Tell me why you love Jesus so much’,  she enquires excitedly. My favourite topic!!

I finish by saying: ‘Your heart’s desire is also beautiful Jesus heart’s desire for you, and that is why you walked in here this morning. Our first morning in this tiny holy place’.

‘Let me give you a big hug’, she replies. Then standing still, she touches her heart uttering; ‘Something wonderful has just taken place’.

What joy and adventure there is in living a solid life in the identity of who we are!

‘The Catholic Church proposes but it does not impose’. (St. Pope John Paul 11)


I love the way delightful Pakistani lady articulated how her life has miraculously unfolded since painfully setting out on her arduous journey from Pakistan to Cahersiveen; ‘Everything in zigzag mode but God keeping everything straight for me’. 
‘God writes straight with crooked lines’. (St. Teresa of Avila)

My powerful prayer🌟

Poor man lying on the cold ground in the pouring rain. I recognised him despite his devastatingly unkempt state. (One time he told me quite irately; ‘No way. I am a communist’ when I offered him my prayer.)
 I called the Garda, there was nothing else I could do. While we waited getting soaked, I began to pray; Our Father who art in Heaven…. He joined in, praying along. We both prayed ‘Hail Mary… and then abruptly he told me to please stop praying. Suddenly it dawned on him that he was actually praying…..(Communists don’t pray much!)
I prayed Act of contrition; ‘O my God I am heartily sorry….He listened quietly. Garda arrived and soon after, an ambulance came for the poor man. Heartbreakingly sad but incredibly beautiful all at the same time.
Sadder still the fact that folk passed by in their cozy cars and did nothing!! I feel more pity for them than I do for my poor man half dressed on the cold ground in the pouring rain.

‘Mercy is having pains in your heart for the pains of another and taking pains to do something about their pain’. (Fr. George Kosicki)
‘The joy of the Lord is my strength’. (Nehemiah 8:10)

Saturday, April 19, 2025

Joan☀️πŸ™πŸ»


‘Real goodness is always simple. Simplicity is so attractive and so profitable, that it is strange that so few people are really simple’. (Leo Tolstoy)

Just a few nights ago, our lovely Joan passed away from this world to her eternal reward. There are no available words to remotely express our beautiful friendship and so I will not attempt to do so. Suffice it to say I miss her greatly and probably a little piece of my heart will go on missing her until we meet once again on that Heavenly shore by God’s glorious Grace.

In her final hours I ask if she might drop by one night in my dreams just to let me know anything of our Heavenly homeland. ‘Yes, perhaps I will’, she replies, smiling sweetly.

This perfect poem I chose for her Funeral Holy Mass reflection, speaks eloquently of our lovely Joan!!

Our St. Anne’s Holy Rosary group have now, three saints in Heaven interceding for us. Marina, Bridie and Joan. Goodness, truth and beauty in vivid display for all the world to see, all through their long lives.

                                                                       Beloved Bridie❤️

                                                                      Majestic Marina❤️

‘I urge you to remain steadfast in faith, so that at last we will all reach Heaven and there rejoice together’. (St. Andrew Kim Taegon)


Dear Pope Francis rip. Just three days after our dear Joan. May the Lord have mercy on their gentle souls. Amen.



Saturday, April 12, 2025

Joy☀️πŸ™πŸ»

 ‘Be very careful on over complaining. Focus on God’s goodness, experiencing that goodness, sharing that goodness with those close to you and transmitting that goodness’. (Fr. John Bartunek)

I awoke this morning thanking God for restful sleep and at the same time pondering over my many aches and pains. Arms aching, could my beloved backpack be to blame. Feet hurting, could my sandals be at fault. Or could the fact that I am in my late (exhilaratingly late!) sixties, have anything to do with it….

Then ping!! Phone message touches down that reads like this…

‘My daughter got to write a little passage about her Confirmation name, to display in Church. She wrote that she chose ‘Bridget’ because of you and her teacher, (also named Bridget). Both of you represent Faith in motion to her’.

Joyful tidings shift our gaze, gladdening our heart. Instantly, all pains and aches fade away as I praise and thank God from my deepest heart for my wonderful life and oh so much more.

My morning reframed with gratitude and joy. True joy is not the absence of pain, it is the presence of God.

‘Lord help me to make time today to serve You in those who are most in need of encouragement or assistance’. (St. Vincent de Paul)

Made of sand!! I love Cork city!

Ash Wednesday, distributing Holy Ashes in a little country school. Before we begin, Teacher asks the children why the sign of the Holy Cross is imprinted on our foreheads with Holy ashes on this day. Silence for a moment until one little girl, probably tiniest of them all, speaks with unvarnished clarity; ‘We are sorry’.

Three little words choc full of beautiful theology from the mouth of a child! Unforgettable!!